add "append" arg to `write_extra_css()`

not working because {colorspace} doesn't force evaluation of
input arguments to scale_color_xxx_xxx() before passing down
to sequential_hcl()

...and renamed from get_xaringanthemer_value()

Seems Droid Serif is no longer "in" Google Fonts

Need to remove all the warnings from docs

* e.g. style_duo() <- duo()
* style_xaringan <- write_xaringan_theme()
* style_extra_css <- write_extra_css()
* added NEWS entry
* updated docs and /docs

Also allow NULL or NA for template arguments but change default to NULL

Avoids table css being applied to help text overlay